Aural Courtesan
What makes an extraordinary lover is not what is between a person’s legs, but rather what is between their ears.
When I sit down to write the “story of my life” what strikes me most is the overwhelming impossibility of that task…My life is still evolving, and though my past has helped make me the person I am today, the way I live from day to day is much more important in explaining who I am…
I live my life openly and freely…I am a creative performer and passionate provider of phone sex…For me, phone sex often transcends mere sexual gratification…Getting to share in the pleasure of my callers and give them, even for a short amount of time, simple acceptance of who they are…It is an honor and a gift…Every day I learn more about myself and humankind through the genuine connections I make with people…
That is the reason I decided to “come out” in a manner of speaking…As is the norm in this industry, I began providing phone sex under the pseudonym Donna Dione Hill and used legal, licensed photographs of an adult model to represent my character…But I found the deception often detracted from my experience and enjoyment of phone sex…I recognize that some men may prefer pure fantasy, and I hope they find what they seek…There are already a plethora of phone sex websites to service those desires- indeed I still take calls as various phone sex fantasy characters on different sites. But there are few places featuring 100% real phone sex girls. With me as me, you get the ultimate erotic reality- a beautifully imperfect, unabashedly deviant woman who loves fantasy and sexual exploration…
Because I know you are dying to ask…No, I don’t fake. Why would I? I have a healthy libido, lots of toys, and a vivid imagination…Let me put it this way…How long can you talk about sex without becoming aroused? Besides, it takes just as much physical, mental, and vocal effort to fake, so I figure why not actually get to feel the pleasure? What human being in their right mind, when faced with the choice, would pick not having an orgasm over having an orgasm? But maybe that’s just me… *smile*
I have always been a sensual, sexual entity…My mother is a therapist and was very open and honest with me about love and sex…I never questioned my sexual nature and desires, so talking about sex, roleplaying, and fantasizing come naturally to me…I discovered early on that I am excited and aroused by things many people would find threatening or unfathomable. Luckily, I have been blessed with partners who encouraged me to explore the darker, psycho-sexual facets of my personality…
Though I have developed quite a penchant for bdsm and adore spankings, whips, restraints, etc., I am a woman of many moods and impulses…I suppose it all boils down to not limiting myself…Sometimes I want to tease and/or be teased for hours…Sometimes I want to be tempted or coerced, and sometimes I want to be the seductress…Sometimes I just want to cuddle up and make sweet love…In the realm of fantasy, good and bad are what we make them, so the only limit to what we can do on the telephone is our imagination…
I choose to think of myself as an aural courtesan rather than merely a phone sex “operator”…No offense to the “pso’s” of the world, but the term seems a bit clinical to me…Mechanical, impersonal…And my approach to phone sex is anything but…I choose my clientele carefully, because I insist on enjoying my work…I want to like the men and women I speak with so that I can enjoy myself right along with them…I won’t pretend money plays no part- phone sex is how I support myself, my acting addiction, and my foodie obsessions. But phone sex is not “just a job” to me…
While I am not rich, I take care of my responsibilities and live comfortably without having to answer to anyone…In addition to enjoying my phone sex work on an intellectual level, I also receive incredible physical pleasure from it…I have family nearby who I love very much and friends I’ve known for decades who are still amazingly huge parts of my life…I share my cozy home with a supportive, kind, loving partner and three darling demons disguised as cats…I am blessed…
Like anyone else, I have my fair share of baggage, from growing up with an absentee father to battling self-esteem issues and eating disorders…I am human and as such, susceptible to the pitfalls of jealousy, anger, resentment, guilt, and laziness…Though I rarely allow myself to wallow in such negative places for long, I do admit that I am far from perfect…
However, I am also capable of recognizing and celebrating my strengths…*smile* I am articulate, attentive, caring, charming, compassionate, friendly, generous, honest, intelligent, loyal, open, outspoken, seductive, sensual, sexy, and strong…As you can see, I have a healthy confidence tempered with an objective self-awareness…
I am proud of my accomplishments as a writer, actor, aural courtesan, artist, performer, and sex-positive educator, and I do not feel the need to keep those parts of my life separate…People who cannot accept all the aspects of my being simply do not have a place in my world for very long…They cannot…For just as I do not expect anyone to live by my personal opinions, nor will I be bound by the spiritual, political, or sexual beliefs of another…What matters most is the ability to look yourself in the eye at the end of the day and know that you are a good and decent person…
The story of my life is probably easiest gleaned by reading this blog and getting a feel for me that way…I am never quite sure how to “sell myself” in the biography section of anything, because truly what we DO speaks volumes more about who we are as people than what we SAY…However, if you’re looking for more biographical details, there are plenty to be found on this website…And as always, the best way to get to know me is to arrange some time for us to chat on the phone…I hope to hear from you soon…
Your Aural Courtesan,
Tonya Jone Miller
“A courtesan in mid-16th century usage was a high-class mistress or sexual companion, especially one associated with rich, powerful, or upper-class men who provided luxuries and status in exchange for her services. In Renaissance Europe, courtesans played an important role in upper-class society, sometimes taking the place of wives at social functions. Financially stable and independent, courtesans enjoyed more freedoms than was typical of women at the time. Being in control of their own resources meant that they did not need to rely on their spouses or male relatives to survive, as was the case for the majority of women.
The “honest courtesan” was cast as an intellectual, often romanticized, and treated equal to women of royalty. They were well-educated and more worldly than the average upper-class woman, and often held simultaneous careers as performers or artists. Chosen on the basis of their conversational skills, intelligence, and common sense, as well as their physical attributes, their wit and personality set them apart from regular women. Courtesans were expected to be ready to engage in a variety of topics ranging from art to music to politics. They were prostitutes in the sense that sex was one of their obligations, but unlike the average whore, sex constituted only a single facet of the courtesan’s array of services.
Courtesans could be born of wealthy, socially-accepted families, and some were even married. Relationships with those of high social status had the potential to improve that of their spouse and as such, it was more often than not that the husband was aware of his wife’s profession and dealings. It was often viewed simply as a business agreement by all parties involved. The benefactor was aware of the political or social favors expected by the courtesan, the courtesan was aware of the price expected from them for those favors being carried out, and the two met one another’s demands.
Courtesans who remained discreet and respectful to their benefactors were able to extend their careers into or past middle age and retire comfortably. Success depended on savvy financial management and the ability to intuit and satisfy the needs of her patrons. Of the many who gained notoriety, a select few climbed through the ranks of royalty, eventually reaching the role of confidante and companion to a king.”
-taken from Wikipedia and edited heavily